Have you heard the saying, "Life doesn't have to be perfect to be beautiful"? It is true. You get to choose how you want to see your difficult moments. Do you want to see them as an opportunity to learn, to grow, to help others and to build on what you know is beautiful about you? You can choose these or choose to water negative thoughts or water the difficult situations. It is your choice. I am not sure, though, how helpful it would be to water negative thoughts and circumstances.
Know that what you may be going through that is tough will one day be the past and life can start to look brighter. You may have to go about life in a different way and that is okay but make it healthy and make it beautiful regardless of the circumstance.
Look ahead. Keep going. Visualize creating a beautiful life and working with what you have. Put your focus on what you DO have and what you CAN do that can add beauty to your life.